Amanda Gobin
January 2026
Amanda
Gobin
,
RN, CCRN
Medical/Surgical/Transplant ICU/PCU
Mayo Clinic Rochester
Rochester
,
MN
United States

 

 

 

I kissed and hugged my husband as they loaded him into the ambulance for transfer from a smaller facility to Mayo. He had been at the first hospital all week, but he wasn’t getting better. The antibiotics weren’t working, the tests weren’t giving us answers, and it was clear his care needed to be escalated. Despite how sick he was, he left with no acute distress. I even snapped a photo of him, something to remember this surreal moment by, his ambulance ride becoming just another strange chapter in a week full of uncertainty. I went home to prepare for his now long-distance hospitalization and to make arrangements before I could join him. But as time passed, and I hadn’t heard from him, no calls, no replies to my messages, I felt the weight of something being wrong. Then the doctor called. He told me that my young, 32-year-old husband had arrived at Mayo in acute respiratory distress. They were preparing to place him on a ventilator. Words will never fully capture how hard that news hit me. I’ve always known that my husband is very sick, but there’s always been a layer of denial wrapped around that truth. His diagnoses have always come with scary language, warnings of what could happen “one day.” But until this moment, I had never truly faced the immediate, tangible threat of losing him. The danger had always felt theoretical. Now, it was real. So, reality hit like a slap. No time to process. One second to figure out work, the next to sort out the kids, the cats, the house, while my mind raced with 500 questions about what this now meant for us. 
Enter: Our new nurse, Amanda. I’ll admit it, I had my guard up right away. I wanted to prejudge her, to compare her to Maya. It wasn’t fair, but it was where I was emotionally. I was raw, scared, and completely vulnerable. I had just started to feel safe, and now I had to start over with someone new. I don’t remember exactly what broke the ice between us, but once Amanda and I started talking, something just clicked. She was the best! Amanda is a damn good nurse. (Yes, I’m swearing, because she deserves it.) Her knowledge blew me away. Her care was seamless. The way she carried herself with confidence, calm, and clarity brought a whole new kind of comfort to me, one I hadn’t realized I needed. She earned my trust in her own way, not by being Maya, but by being fully, incredibly Amanda. She translated things so I could understand, gave updates on results, and clued me in anytime there were future orders she became aware of for tests. She hooked me up with 4 pillows because the chair was horribly rock hard, got me bath towels and rags so I could "shower" in the sink as best I could. Amanda explained everything so well and made sure my husband was completely comfortable. Look, not all care is exceptional, and that’s just the reality. Most of us have had moments where we’ve questioned why someone chose the caregiving profession at all. But Maya and Amanda? They reminded us what exceptional care truly looks like. They didn’t just care for my husband; they cared for us. With compassion, competence, and humanity. In a time when we were at our most vulnerable, they brought light, trust, and a sense of peace into our chaos. Today, I write to nominate Maya and Amanda for the DAISY Award in recognition of their extraordinary care. They made a lasting impact on our family that we will never forget. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.