While giving change-of-shift report, Cayte Quinn Messere casually mentioned a scenario that was extraordinary and reflects not only her expert nursing care but her effortless compassion. Catye is a night-shift weekend nurse. The patient came to our unit newly diagnosed and terminally ill. The patient was 51-years-old and had four small children. Hospice was consulted; however, they were unable to see the patient until Monday.
Cayte, being the experienced oncology nurse she is, took it upon herself to educate the family on the death process both physically and emotionally. She put all the needed moving pieces into action, including support for the patient's small children. Cayte was instrumental in making sure the patient had the necessary meds available to keep her comfortable and at peace during her last days. The patient's mother flew in to see her from another state during this weekend and Cayte spent at least an hour discussing her current condition, scans, and the death/dying process.
Catye was careful not to overstep her scope of practice while ensuring the family and patient understood everything that was happening. The patient passed away that weekend. After working with Cayte for several years, this story does not at all surprise me. I have heard and witnessed countless other scenarios like this involving Cayte over the years. Her compassion and expert knowledge deserve recognition for effortlessly handling such a tough and sensitive situation. I cannot imagine how this patient and family would have coped with the given situation without her. She goes above and beyond to educate her patients daily about life-changing oncology diagnoses, treatments, and end-of-life care - her recognition is long overdue. She is a great example to all of us!