I have been a patient here several days. Years ago I was a victim of domestic abuse. I ran away with the kids and he found me. I was diagnosed with PTSD. I have avoided men at all cost. When John came in my room and introduced himself, I froze and cringed due to my past. With no knowledge of my past, he smiled and shook my hand and introduced himself. His manner, soft voice and gentle words helped me let my guard down. Every time I had a question, he was thorough and timely. I know he had several other patients to care for however, he made me feel that I was his only patient.
Because of my ex-husband, I have avoided men for years; I always had to have female doctors and nurses. If a male nurse came in my room I would request a female. A lot of people who don't know what I've lived through for 10 years, labeled me as difficult. I had my IV in my neck and when I needed medication put into it, I panicked. From my past, I don't like anyone near my neck or throat. John started to administer the medicine and he was so gentle it was almost like he could sense that I was very anxious. Then he talked to me, I think to distract me. Suddenly a feeling that I haven't felt in years came over me. A man touching closely at the top of my neck and I wasn't scared. I realized the feeling I was feeling was calm! Honestly, I don't think John did anything for me that he wouldn't do for his other patients. He is an amazing nurse.
What makes him even more special is that he doesn't even realize that he changed my life. After he took care of me, I learned that I don't have to fear all men! It was almost like he was an angel sent to not only care for me, but to teach me that all is going to be ok an. I literally would not go to any social functions if I knew a lot of men would be there. Talking to my husband on the phone today he asked me if I would go to the picnic at the firehouse next Saturday. This is something I have avoided for 7 years. I surprised myself when I said yes. My husband made me cry with his response. "I finally have my wife back!"
Again, a lot of this can't be explained, but I don't care. I can honestly say "thank you John you changed my life, my family and I are extremely grateful. God Bless you and any other patient that you care for. You are definitely in the right profession and Mary Washington is lucky to have you and all other team members that help heal. You are a wonderful nurse; you helped heal me physically and helped me break down the wall of domestic violence. Please know you are appreciated."