Kevin
Tantillo
,
RN
One January morning was quite possibly the scariest and most stressful day I have had in a very long time. I am an RN at BUMCP and I work with the neurology teams, so when I arrived at work and felt something was terribly wrong, I knew exactly how serious it could be. The entire left side of my face was completely flaccid, my speech was distorted, and my tongue was numb. As a neuro nurse, I know far too much—and that knowledge made me even more terrified as I presented myself to the ER triage desk.
Kevin somehow knew I was coming, and he immediately stepped into action. He asked exactly the right questions and completed a focused neuro exam right there at the triage desk. Meanwhile, every worst-case scenario was swirling through my mind, and I could feel tears welling up in my eyes.
That’s when Kevin paused, held my hands, looked me directly in the eyes, and quietly said, “You are in the best place you can be. We are going to take the best care of you. You’re about to get a lot of attention and there will be many people around you—but this is all okay. You are okay. Deep breath.” In that moment, he gave me exactly what I needed most: calm, grounding reassurance.
Kevin quickly moved me back to be evaluated, and within minutes I was in the CT scanner. Everything happened exactly the way it should in a stroke protocol—but what stands out is how Kevin managed both the clinical urgency and my emotional world with absolute mastery.
I am nominating Kevin for one profound reason: his unmatched ability to manage my environment—both externally and internally—at a moment when I was at my most vulnerable. I have been a nurse for 20 years. I am skilled at compartmentalizing emotions during a crisis, and I understand every reason and rationale for the actions taken that day. But none of that insulated me from the fear I felt.
Kevin’s ability to perform a rapid assessment, initiate stroke triage processes, and coordinate immediate care—all while providing the only calm, reassuring voice I could hear—was nothing short of heroic. His compassion didn’t just accompany excellent clinical care; it elevated it. Kevin embodied the heart of nursing that day. And I am profoundly grateful.