Marjorie Samson, RN

 I was shot in my apartment by a stray bullet from a neighbor’s gun. I suffered a compound fracture of my radius, and the bullet remained lodged in my chest. I had no family or support system in Mississippi and arrived at the hospital alone. My parent was unable to find a flight and didn’t arrive until the following day.

That first night was the hardest. I was terrified. I had been in bed when I was shot, and afterward, everything frightened me. I didn’t want to be in the dark. Loud noises made my heart race, and my surgery wasn’t scheduled until the next morning, so I lay awake in anticipation. The nights were especially hard. I had flashbacks of being back in my apartment, and being alone felt overwhelming.

Marjorie completed her regular rounds but would come back and talk with me so I wouldn’t feel alone. She reassured me that I was strong and that the doctors were going to take care of me. She was incredibly kind and gentle at a time when even the smallest movement felt agonizing. Marjorie took the time to translate medical terminology into language I could understand, making sure I knew exactly what was happening. She answered all of my questions and never once made me feel like she was too busy for me.

I’ve spent a lot of time in hospitals because of my father’s illness, and I know what typical nursing care looks like. The care and kindness that Marjorie showed me went far beyond that. She made me feel like I had a mom watching over me when I didn’t have anyone there. Even when my parent did arrive, they weren’t able to stay with me overnight. Marjorie continued to spend time with me and help me through the hard times. I will never forget the kindness and compassion she showed during such a traumatic time.