December 2021
Mary
Tomlinson
,
RM
Fetal Care Clinic
Nottingham University Hospitals NHS Trust
Nottingham
United Kingdom
Seeing Mary made me feel safe and I felt like I could get through anything as I knew I had her.
Mary was present for my amniocentesis. Mary instantly made me and my husband feel confident in her care. She was so compassionate, genuinely cared for our needs in a difficult situation, and explained everything clearly. She was the midwife who gave us our good news and told us that we were expecting a girl, which was the best birthday present for my Husband. Unfortunately, our daughter became quite unwell a few weeks later and we met Mary again. I was so scared for this appointment and then I saw Mary. Seeing her made me feel safe and I felt like I could get through anything as I knew I had her. She told me to keep being positive and that really kept me going when I felt like I couldn’t do much more. She was gentle and kind, and it was just what we needed. Our daughter was born sleeping. My husband and I often speak of Mary and how wonderful she was, and that we hope she’s giving more parents good news. If all midwives could be like Mary, the world would be a beautiful place.