I have always known that my colleague Kelsey Olnick was an exceptional nurse but one day last week she displayed how astounding she is. Kelsey was caring for a 49-year-old patient who was suffering from the long-term negative effects of COVID-19 which left her respiratory system compromised. Ultimately, after several hospitalizations for respiratory failure, it was clear to the patient that this was not survivable. After careful consideration, the patient's wish was to stop all treatment and pass from this life comfortably.

The patient was struggling with how to tell her mother her wishes. Kelsey provided a tremendous amount of support to the patient and the patient's mother throughout this difficult decision-making process. While the patient's mother was having a difficult time accepting the decision her daughter made, Kelsey helped advocate on behalf of the patient all while being extremely sensitive towards the mother's feelings. While the mother was begging her daughter to reconsider her decision, Kelsey spent a significant amount of time speaking with and supporting her position and gently easing her into acceptance of her daughter's position. Kelsey then was instrumental in working with the multi-disciplinary team in facilitating this transition of care.

Some nurses may find it difficult to demonstrate support in physical form and to display their emotions in these types of situations. Kelsey was fully present in the moment. I watched with amazement as she completely embraced the patient while sharing tears and anticipatory grief. Kelsey continually discussed what the patient could expect through the process. This moment was awe-inspiring to me. Because I had the privilege of witnessing this, I am now inspired to be a more compassionate nurse.