Recently I gave birth to my 3rd child. Even though I had given birth twice already I knew this labour would be the hardest. I was 5 months pregnant when my mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer. 6 weeks later she passed away. The thought of having a baby without my mum was devastating. A moment that should be filled with happiness and excitement became my worst nightmare. Donna had no idea about my personal circumstances nor did she know how much I was struggling mentally. I can’t help but feel that my mum was responsible for ensuring that I was cared for by such a kind and warm-hearted midwife. Donna was exactly what I needed. Several times during my labour I felt like I was going to lose control. I felt overwhelmed. I cried a lot. Again this was hidden from Donna. Donna effortlessly guided me through each stage. I felt more knowledgeable and empowered to birth my baby compared to my previous pregnancies. Donna didn’t adapt her care according to my needs. She couldn’t have known what they were. She simply did what I believe she does day in and day out. She showed care and compassion whilst giving me the self-believe that I so desperately needed to birth my baby. Being a midwife appeared to come so naturally to Donna and I will be eternally grateful that I had her by my side during one of the hardest moments of my life. Thank you, Donna.