Mariyamma
Matthew
April 2013
Mariyamma
Matthew
,
RN
Burn
Torrance Memorial Medical Center
Torrance
,
CA
United States

 

 

 

Every nurse who took care of my husband was extraordinary. Mariyamma, however, stood out for me because she lit up the room with happiness and hope. She always had a very big genuine smile that made me smile. When I was afraid to enter the room as I saw my husband suffering in pain, she was cheerful and encouraged me. I came into the room and after a little while I was smiling too. She made light conversation which is what I needed. Seeing her perform her duties, some of which were painful for my husband, with a calm and reassuring manner, I soon learned from her how to do the same. Instead of looking away and standing back I learned to hold his hand and stay. I marveled at her patience. She would ask a question and wait for my husband to answer without rushing him. She made us feel like we were her only patient and family she was responsible for. I know she had to have had many others as well. She listened to my husband carefully. I could see the concentration in her face. Every complaint he had she found a way to make better or called someone to check what else could be done. Her kindness and compassion has made me a kinder and more compassionate person. Thank you - you are our angel and hero.